Tekkie Things

My heart breaks when I hear of stories of people who lost their loved ones in the tragic flooding that hit two cities that are not really far from where we are. I have special friends who have been affected, and I am amazed at how they survived the ordeal.

For the past month I have personally been active in sending aid to affected families, and it brings so much fulfillment just to be of help. I wish I could send great sympathy flowers to all those who are grieving at their loss, but that would not be possible at this time. I am just glad that so many people, even outside the Philippines have responded to the need of the hour, providing the victims with clothes, food and temporary shelter.

I remember how it felt like when I was about to graduate in High School. I guess anyone at that age would go through a certain crisis: first you have to leave precious friends behind, you are going to say goodbye to the comforts of high school, easy-go-lucky teen age life and brace yourself with the challenges of university life. Choosing a career was one tough job for me, too.

Will I pursue a medical course? Am I good in science subjects? Can I see myself in a laboratory holding those ph meters? Would I rather pursue a teaching degree? What are my assets? What can I see myself doing 5 years down the road? These were the questions I had to answer myself.

In the end it still pays to do what we want to do. Sure, there are expectations from other people but choosing a career is something that is not dependent on other people’s opinions. I am glad I chose well.

Someone once said, being a parent changes you. It is a neutral statement, because for some people, parenthood brings in bitterness and frustration, while for some it could bring sheer joy. It is true that kids change you. For one, your schedule will be changed– you would find yourself wide awake at night when you could have been sleeping sans the baby.

Your spending would be changed, too. The baby’s needs come first. Parenthood makes one selfless, which is actually a good thing. Other baby needs would be a baby jogger stroller for afternoon walks in the park, a crib, toys—not to mention baby food and milk… and clothes that they would outgrow before you even know it. Sure, having a baby is expensive these days, but they are life’s rewards. Having them are great blessings.